[jhsdh]

Long story short I am a 27 year old female and had a "friend". He was a 38 year old male. We met 6 years ago. I met him through my ex. We only became friends but he always wanted more. We hung out and drank all the time. His pad was a party house for a while and he always pathetically tried to be with me. I wasn’t interested at all what so ever. He even got on his knees and begged me. I was so turned off... he’s not my type at all. I just don’t want to be with him plain and simple. No physical attraction, no emotions, nothing. I feel like he should have respected me more.

Well after a few times of begging and pleading I quit been friends with him. Then my ex best friend kept saying I should just try to be friends with him again so stupid me I did and the same but worse. He started being a pervert. Every time I went over there he would put on porn or say nasty gestures... just a total pig. Well I can hang with the guys so I put up with it for a while. I had a few boyfriends that he was constantly jealous of and made a fool out of both of us because he would always make my man feel uncomfortable by professing his love for me. My men felt sorry for him.

So I moved to another state and ended up getting pregnant and moving back to my home town. I already have an 8 year old daughter. Anyway he said I should get an abortion because it will be hard for me to find a man that wants to take on 2 kids! It was after that that I told him that I thought he was a pig, dirty, nasty and obsessive Mr. Know-it-all and he will never have a chance with me EVER! He only said that cause he's so set on having me be his wife and he's jealous that it's not his kid. I am so angry that I am so stupid to surround myself with such idiots! I have an ex that I only keep around for company because he hurt me before so now I just use him... its mutual actually but unhealthy and distracting.

Then I have a girlfriend that’s almost 40 and she acts like a child. Her parenting is whack and she says she can’t hang out with me and go to a bar we always went to because she has new friends and feels like they control her and if they see her at a bar other than a techno club they'll judge her. Where the hell did I come across these people?? I know you attract those like you but geez o'pete... where is there real people that have back bones??

Now I’m lost and pissed because I pushed them all away... why the hell would I want such pathetic people in my life?? I’m holding out to meet my new found friends when I start college in a few months. I’m hopeful that there are sane and grown up people out there somewhere.

[Fr_Chuck]

We can not tell you why you make bad and poor choices, You need to look at your life and decide where you want it to go.

[talaniman]

Good luck making better choices in friends and actions for yourself. College is a good step.