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Want to break up with him, but we live together.
I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 and 1/2 yrs now. Things were great until we got an apartment together about a year and a half ago. Now we never have sex, and we feel more like roomates than a couple. If/when we do have sex, I feel nothing for him and its more of a chore than pleasure. I've also been wanting to start seeing other men because I have no emotional attraction left for my boyfriend
I know most people have told me "just move out" but I am trapped because of our lease and I'm not financially stable enough to move out alone right now. Also, I don't have any close friends or family that I could shack up with because I moved far away when I started college. I have tried talking about a break before, but it didn't work because we live together. What should I do? |
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1) Stop having sex with him. 2) Begin saving money. 3)Wait until your lease is up (you didn't say how long you have left, but I assume it's less than a year). 4) Find a new roommate. 5) Don't move it with boyfriends ever again.
If you aren't willing to do these things than perhaps you aren't really over him. |
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Your previous question answers most of these questions: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...ed-706631.html
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You made your choices, first if you have stopped feeling for him, is this why sex is a chore ?
And how often is "not having sex" But I agree just stop having sex with him if you don't feel anything and he does not care about it. As for as the lease, so you move out ? He is living there and will have to pay it so he can keep living there? Or you can play the happy "wife" and be a slave to the relationship because you can not find a way to move out |
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If you can split expenses of an apartment with him, you can do so with a female roommate (or 2) elsewhere. Start looking at roommate ads or advertise, and tell him about it. (If you have a 1 bedroom together, I assume he can't get someone to replace you.) You'd be surprised how quickly the end of a lease happens, and you can be prepared.
I agree that it isn't clear whether he wants sex and you don't or what. |
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