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kayp1212 · Dec 20, 2012, 11:23 PM

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months.He did say in the begging that he had no sex drive. Well in the first couple of weeks we had sex no problem. But as soon as we moved in it got less and less to none and I got really depressed thinking it was me I model as a side job so I know my body isent the factor but one thinks that. I asked him if it was me and if he's still attracted to me, he says yes and that he would work on it and it never got better . So I brought it up again months later because we were not having it at all. I have tried sexy clothing,playing around I get no reaction to anything.We have this talk over 4 times and nothing has changed I know stress was a big thing was his job so he quit and now no stress.I don't know what to do anymore I'm getting upset I do love him but I can't go on knowing that we will have a no sex future. He doesn't look at porn,he has no want to play around in anyway. What should I do?

Fr_Chuck · Dec 20, 2012, 11:43 PM

Quit his job, so how is he paying his bills, that could be more stress, he may have an erection issue due to health or other problems, if so he needs to be treated and seen.

But it sounds like he was honest up front, told you he had little sex drive and you were OK with it, and now when his honestly is proven, you are not OK with it.

If he can not get an erection, there is a medical issue, does he maturate ?

Also you looking or not looking like a model has nothing to do with it.
First not all men are turned on by models, some like 400 lb women, some like women with big bottoms and so on