[sweetgirlluv22]

Hi , I am facing this revenge & forgive problem don't know how to deal with it?? I was in relationship for 4 years , all was good going,had differences but love was more so it did not effect . Suddenly from last year things went worst no support when needed the most since was going through financial & family issues, no understanding& hiding things . After some time I came know from his friends that he was dating someone else too I was destroyed totally , I confronted him then he told it just happened by mistakely & cried for chance, I gave that also but came to know that he was still cheating on me . We had lot of fights and issues but nothing was clear , in one hand he told me he was loved me lot and can't stay without me & in other way he was maintaining his other relation . I could not resist felt cheated all the time and was hurt badly . I did not know what to do ? I wanted to be with him but can't take his cheating I even told him tell the truth I will go out your way ? But he was playing with me emotionally , he very well knew that I loved him a lot . Finally could not take it and I Broke off completely , but I am still connected with his family since I did not disclose the truth to them since his Mom is very nice & loves him a lot and was always nice to me . Now the situation is this that we are not together I am trying come out of it but could not come out completely . After all this I have am become very aggressive, always in anger & in pain ? I sometimes even feel to forgive him and move on, tried that but again the same ? I even feel to take revenge and teach him a lesson but since I love him don't want to hurt him ? I need your advice for this so that I can come to a conclusion?? All this has effected me badly ?I want to come out in a better way and become a better person ? Don't want to go in it but close it a better way so that even if we meet it should not effect us in any way ? Please guide & help..
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[LightCross]

Why would you want to go back to a cheater? Among all kind of ex to get back to , cheater ex is the worst type. Let's say you get back to him and he cheats on you again, nothing good come from it, he does not love you enough to be in relationship with you without cheating, accept that fact. You should move on, find a better guy who can reciprocate your love well.

[santosh_mahato]

Hi
I really felt bad for what you are feelling now.

The person to whom you loved has not supported you in bad times its very sad.
And he is hurting you like this.

Its your beauty of heart that you don't want to hurt him. Keep this beauty in your heart.

I think he does not deserve for your love.
You should just let him go and forgive him.

You deserve for someone who will respect your feellings and support you in bad times and always stand with you whenever you need him.