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    Mar 21, 2007, 04:39 PM
    Does it hurt ?
    I'm just wondering I've already had sex and it hurt me, my current boyfriend wants to have sex with me but does it hurt the second time ?I'm really nervous :confused:
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    Mar 21, 2007, 05:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ladymidge91
    im just wondering ive already had sex and it hurt me, my current boyfriend wants to have sex with me but does it hurt the second time ?im really nervous :confused:
    Having sex the second or third time might be the same as the first time,but eventually the hurting will go away. The problem could be that your first partner was too big for you. I had the same problem.
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    Mar 21, 2007, 05:11 PM
    It could also be that because you were nevous or scared the 1st time, you did not relax, causing it to hurt. If you worry about it this time then you could cause this to happen again. The best way to avoid this is to use lubrication, take it slowly and only have sex when you feel 100% comfortable. Please use protection though.
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    Mar 23, 2007, 07:38 AM
    Yes as english rose said, the trick is the relax, if you tense up you are obviously going to hurt. Also make sure that you are lubricated properly before you have intercourse if you are not then no matter how many times you have had sex it will always hurt if you are dry.
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