[samanthajoe]

I do not, can not understand why my boyfriend has changed so drastically. When we met , we had so much fun, I was honest while still dating that I require a lot of attention, he was so completely awesome at giving it. We went out, drank some, laughed a lot, and were always saying how we always had fun... well I moved in with him about 5 months ago at his request, we had a great sex life and lots of fun. We both work mostly different shifts so were not together all the time. In the last.couple months things have went WAY down hill. He does not want sex, will not let me initiate, turns me down to where I am hurt and embarrassed for trying so now I don't try, however I do try flirting and letting him know I want him without actually raping him... but to no avail. Nothing! Talking about it don't help, he says I'm making it an issue. However, other things have changed as well. We do not go out, he's sworn off drinking completely, he barely kisses me, like barely a peck. Never any passion. He does not hold my hand, hug, touch... nothing anymore, but says he loves me. He used to text such sweet things , gone. He does hold me at nightbut no kisses or touching at all. I don't want to leave him, bit I am so sensual and emotional I can not live with someone that refuses affection so completely. He will not tell me what turns him on and won't even look at me in sexy nighties. Have I lost him and am just in denial? Or can this be fixed? Please help, I love him

[odinn7]

You need to seriously talk to him and find out what is going on. We cannot guess based on what you're saying. Try talking to him and see where that goes.

[Homegirl 50]

You need to be asking him what's wrong. If he refuses to talk then you need to walk away from this. How long had you dated before you moved in with him? Maybe he is regretting the move but does not have the guts to tell you.