[Tzamora13]

Ok I will try to make my story as short as I can . I was in a relationship with my ex for 5 years love was in the air etc . 2 years ago we had a baby girl being a parent is extremely difficult , relationship status changes , it's not about me and him anymore I got that !

Recently. Last year on December we had my daughters first birthday party. My boyfriend at the time got a little tipsy. Where things were not going right. So there was a knock on the door and it was one of his really good friends. I was happy to see him. I didn't looked at him in any way so the kept going him and I basically talked the whole night. In that instance I grew feelings for him.

I knew the guy for 5 years and at times when his name will pop up. I hated the guy. I kept asking myself why do I feel this way for him. So one night I decided to get his number from my boyfriend and I texted him on new years day saying happy new years. He replied didn't even bothered saying how did you get my number etc .

So feelings started growing more and more each day. And one night I had the "balls" And I wasn't afraid of rejection and I told him how I felt. He replied and we kept on texting for a month . He was flattered and he seemed interested so of course I was happy .

One day he called me and told me he wanted to meet up so we can talk about it . That came and we talked face to face he never said no to anything and he was still friends with my ex they are co workers. . Time passed and he will text me with nice little notes and wanted time to see if before he will make a move he didn't want to jeopardize anything.

He called one time and told me I am just calling you to let you know that I haven't forgotten about u ! Things were actual turning right until accidentally I left my phone unlocked and for some curiosity my ex looked at all the messages we were texting back an forth !

Confrontation came he lost his friendship and him and I were done ! Well it's been a year later after the confrontation that my ex and him had he never texted me call me or haven't seen him but I still have deep feelings for this guy !

I want to start my life the right way but with him What should I do ? How can I know If his interested in me ? Should I make a move ?

[Alty]

Totally up to you. I think it speaks volumes that he hasn't called you or texted you, but if you want to take the plunge, then do it. You know him better than we do.