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    Nov 27, 2012, 07:48 AM
    Possibly pregnant?
    Hi I would really appreciate some help with this if anyone can shed any light.

    I had unprotected sex on 8th November- stupid I know. I can't believe I was so reckless and I deeply regret it. Approximately 4 and a half days later I came on what I thought was my period (I wasn't due for another 8 days- periods are usually always spot on give or take a day). I bled for two days and the third day was just a brownish colour, very light (sorry to be so graphic). As periods go this was extremely quick- mine normally last for a full 5 days.

    Anyway I assumed that I had just had an early, light period but then about a week later (when I would normally be due on) I started to have really bad cramps- as though I was about to have my period. I have had these cramps (sometimes really strong) for over a week now but no period has come. I'm totally confused by this and am not sure what to do about it. Its now been nearly three weeks since the unprotected sex. Over the past week my breasts have been a little sensitive but not too painful and I'm feeling quite tired. What are the chances that I may be pregnant?

    Would really appreciate some help with this.
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    Nov 29, 2012, 11:16 AM
    Chances are good you could be pregnant. I would wait a week or two and get a over the counter test. Maybe talk to your doctor and the sperm donor. It is important that he be kept in the loop too.
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    Nov 29, 2012, 01:03 PM
    Do you think I should wait until I know for sure before I tell him? I don't want to worry him unnecessarily?
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    Nov 29, 2012, 01:13 PM
    I would talk to him as quickly as possible. He has a right to know.
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    Nov 29, 2012, 02:05 PM
    Thanks for your help. I'm totally scared at what his reaction will be as we aren't a couple and it was only a one night thing.
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    Nov 29, 2012, 03:05 PM
    You would be surprised how many people get pregnant like that.

    Best advice is to be smarter next time, if there is a next time. One if not two forms of birthcontrol and rule out one night stands.
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    Nov 30, 2012, 02:06 AM
    I will never be that stupid ever again! I have his email address so I will contact him. Thanks for your help
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