[taylor15rose]

I am being made to chose between my boyfriend and everyone else in my life family and friends.

I have been hurt my my boyfriend before but I love him so much all I want t do is be with him he sys he will change and he loves me I believe him and I want to stay but I have to block everyone else out

I feel sick to the stomach with anxiety every single day I am sick and I just want this to end what do I do

[Wondergirl]

He will change from doing what?

[odinn7]

I've learned that you don't push away family for a bf/gf... especially someone who hasn't been good to you and claims they will "change". Most of the time, if there is something they need to change, and they claim they will do it... they don't and they go back to how they were before.

Obviously, your friends and family are not happy with whatever it is that he has done to you and think you are better off without him. You know, not all of them can be wrong. Generally, if you step away from the situation and look at it objectively, you will see that they are most likely right about him and you would be better off.

What will probably happen is that you will push them all away in favor of him because you guys are so wonderful together... he will go back to doing whatever he was doing... eventually you will break up... to finish it off, you will then have to crawl back to this family of yours all the while realizing that they were right.

[smoothy]

Boyfriends/girlfriends are a dime a dozen... you only ever have one family that's yours.

And any that make you choose between them and your family... aren't worth having... they will cause you immeasurable grief over the rest of your life.