[joshinavadha]

We have been married for over a year, and my husband does not find me beautiful. Even after a few days of marriage he started telling me that I am not beautiful. And that beauty remains a priority for him, when I asked him that why did he marry me then, he told me because he thought if once his age is gone he would not be able to find a girl, even like me and will be getting worse and worse proposals. Although before marriage almost everyone told me that I am beautiful, but still I feel so ashamed in front of him, sometimes he even gets off his mood by looking at my face, although he tells me that now that I am his wife he will have to love me, and is nice to me. I feel so ashamed in going in front of him, or looking at mirror. What should I do so that my husband finds me beautiful. Please help me I am emotionally devastated...

[tickle]

He seems to have a different perspective on beauty. Actually, when you get right down to it, beauty is only skin deep and what is inside that counts that makes a person appear beautiful.

I think he needs a good kick in the butt for putting it to you that way, and some men just enjoy belittling their women, so take this into consideration.

If others have found you pretty, then you are, if you know you are pretty, then you are.

If you appear to him to be emotionally devastated he is probably laughing on the other side of his face feeling that he has achieved his purpose in lowering yourself esteem.

Hold your head up high my dear and make it known his comments don't affect you in the least !