[ashfreeze]

I met a guy online through a mutual friend of mine who is a girl. This guy used to text both of us, asked both of us for our phone numbers and even met each of us. This guy and I then started dating each other. But suddey one day he said he lost all feelings for me because I constantly texted him and wanted him to speak to him all day and was not giving him space. I promised I would not do so and I would give him his space. But he remained adamant and asked us to be friends. I called him several times after that text but he refused to receive it and threatened to block me. Frustated I cursed him via text. He blocked me straightway. When I told our mutual friend about this.. she refused to believe me and she said she knew from a long time back whom he liked. I was shocked. I always thought that they were just good friends. And maybe she thought about us the same way. She accused me of creating differences between them as I wanted him. But she refused to tell me what story he had told her. I suppose he never admitted the truth to her and blamed me for trying to create a rift between them. I feel so cheated and betrayed. I trusted him a lot and never doubted his feelings. When I accused him of doubledating he said he never double dated. Then what exactly happened. I feel like a piece of trash now.

[maryanne44]

Forget him, leave it alone. He may not of thought he had been leading you on but it sounds to me he clearly was. It is possible he was using you to get to his friend or maybe he was trying to see what he wanted. Either way I do not think this worth anymore of your time. Just be careful when you meet people before you let them in. Things will get easier with time. As for your friend, just vow not to bring it up anymore and work on your friendship. Do not allow her to talk about him, don't be rude about it because that could be potentially harmful for the friendship but just change the subject. I'm sorry

[Oliver2011]

I would agree - you need to move on. But you might want to look at your own behavior so this doesn't happen again. I hate being smothered by someone and so do many people. Both people need to keep their friends and their interests so things don't become stale. When you are in a relationship it is very okay for the other person to have fun doing something else or with someone else. That keeps the relationship healthy from my standpoint.