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laqueen1234 · Nov 16, 2012, 03:16 PM

Originally Posted by J_9

So you understand that he could go to jail and be labeled a sex offender for the rest of his life if you continue to have sex with him? Do you love him so much that you are willing to send him to jail?

Do you understand he could go to prison for pulling a gun on your brother?

In the state of South Carolina I can be with him as long as I'm 16 or above. Ill be 17 next month, I understand everything everybody was telling me, but I just love him too much and really believe that he loves me . Like they always say, you can't put other people in your relationship because everybody makes mistakes and everybody can change. I know the real him and everybody is not liking him only because of what went down last night. So at the end of the day its my decision I will decide what I want to do. Its my fault that my parents don't like him because I allowed him to come in I believe that they shouldn't be mad at him... he works , go to school, makes money, and he even gives me money and take care of me when my family doesn't have the money. He's not a bad guy he uses the gun for protection when he comes to see me. He never been to jail or killed anyone he isn't in a gang or nothing. He works and provide for me and him.. that's why I neglect what my parents tell me about him..

J_9 · Nov 16, 2012, 03:20 PM

Actually you don't understand. He could get in trouble because he is 19. If he were 18 he wouldn't.

laqueen1234 · Nov 16, 2012, 04:02 PM

I understand

Homegirl 50 · Nov 16, 2012, 04:37 PM

You and your boyfriend are lucky your parents didn't have him arrested . I would have. You need to leave this thug alone.

J_9 · Nov 16, 2012, 04:45 PM

Heck if the thug did THAT in my house he would have been shot!

Alty · Nov 16, 2012, 05:54 PM

I don't think you understand the severity of what happened last night. You defied your parents and had sex with this boy in your bed. They could have him charged for that because of his age and yours. Your brother was justifiably upset when catching his sister, a minor, having sex with an adult in her bed. Your boyfriend then pulled a gun on your brother. Your parents could have had him charged for that.

Right now, if you continue to defy your parents, they can send this man to prison, with a record and a sex offender title, one he'll have for the rest of his life.

So, tell me again how much you love him. Do you love him enough to leave him alone so he doesn't end up in jail?

odinn7 · Nov 16, 2012, 06:24 PM

Aside from all the other facts that people are pointing out to you, he is breaking the law by carrying a gun... never mind the fact that he supposedly pulled it on your brother.

J_9 · Nov 16, 2012, 06:25 PM

How is he breaking the law Odinn?

odinn7 · Nov 16, 2012, 06:27 PM

Originally Posted by J_9

How is he breaking the law Odinn?

Well, it's illegal to carry a handgun in SC unless you have a concealed carry permit... and I know he doesn't have one because he is not old enough to get one.

J_9 · Nov 16, 2012, 06:29 PM

Yeah, I thought about that too. Have to be 21 to purchase a handgun.

odinn7 · Nov 16, 2012, 06:32 PM

But you can purchase a handgun through a private sale in SC as long as you are 18, just cannot get a carry permit until 21.

Fr_Chuck · Nov 17, 2012, 05:13 AM

Yes, a real loser boyfriend, hope the parents put him in jail and keep this child away from him.

Also it is against the law to point the gun at another person.