[shaemonique2003]

If this was you in this pardicament, what would you do?

You and yo ex broke up in September 2011 after she threatened you if you left her she said TRY ME. The relationship ends after a year of dating and you all happen to see each other in October 2011 and she was with someone yet didn't introduce you, she sat there very angrily ballin up her fist. A few months go by and its now may 2012 and you all happen to speak briefly and yo ex was still pissed at you over ya'lls break up and it is now novemember 2011 and she texts you saying we should catch up, she was angry for almost a year over the break up and all of a sudden she's contacting you saying we should meet up somewhere so we can catch up.
She wants to go to the movies , I find all this odd *** hell, we isn't spoke in over a year and now all of a sudden you want to see me, she has threatened me in the past and held anger and bitterness for me for over a year. My fam thinks this is a set up and she may try and hurt me physically. They are leaving the decision up to me. But I don't know what to do.
I texted her today and said I'm sorry for being so rude the other day, I just don't feel comfortable being around you after what happened between us but I don't mind us catching up over the phone and she said sasha its okay everything is fine there's no hard feelings and now she won't even talk to me. I don't get it if she was over me or wasn't going to do physically hurt me (I think she admitted her guilt) I don't think that wouldve been her response. Is this chick so in LOVE with me that she just refuses to accept a friendship with me. Otherwise I don't know why she won't speak to me. Do you all think she may set me up due to her anger issues? Should I watch my back? Thanks

She was putting me down constantly, what I did or gave her wasn't good enough... I was with her for 1.5 years and I was helping her with her kids, she acted as if I was not existent at times, like if she was with a friend she wouldn't introduce me, or I couldn't come around the family... I stayed with her thinking she would change but she didn't so I left her... she called me a year later asking to hang out I said no and I seen her not that long ago and she was looking at me very pissed off and angry *** hell. So I don't know if she wants to beat the shytt out of me or what


She would push me around at times, grab on me etc... if things didn't go her way... I know I wasn't there for her like I sshould been but I said sorry she never did... so I have forgiven her and moved on... I keep to myself now not really up to meeting anyone else after all that abuse

I ran into her today and she was HEATED AT MY BUTT, after a year of bitterness and anger she's still mad at me... I don't understand why? She kept glaring at me and she said hi to me with an attitude. She was straight ANGRY. Should I watch my back? (this is the third encounterment with her) I think she wants to hurt me literally. What do you all think? I guess she was pissed because I didn't want to go to the movies with her nor get back together.
We haven't seen each other in 6 months.. no contact whatsoever. Nor have I seen her... I have nothing else to say to her. Yet, she's still pissed at me.

When I seen her at the store she said hi sasha and when I said hi to her and smiled, she glared at my azz and started smirking and laughing and glared at me up and down and was pissed off... so that told the story.. shes angry and will never forgive me or get over this. I don't take this lightly. I think she wants to rearrange my face. How should I handle this


If you are still pissed after two years she may try and beat the shhyytt out of me if she sees me again. This is the third time I've ran into her and it's the same attitude

[smoothy]

Stop by the local police dept and file a report on this... and consider a restraining order... she sounds mentally unbalanced.