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Snorlaxx · Nov 10, 2012, 08:38 PM

So long story short, I told this girl I liked her and she left without giving me an answer. Two days later, I spoke to her and she said she doesn't want to be in a relationship because of the emotional baggage that comes with it. She said we can date and give it a try to see if we really are meant for each other but, we hung out during a friends birthday yesterday and we didn't speak as much as I'd hoped because I am an idiot and that I didn't feel like it was the right place to have this talk with her. Also, we are co-workers and we kind of want to keep it in the down low. I've honestly dated other girls before but for some reason, I've never been so awe-struck by her. She feels like a game changer. I think the only thing that is messing up the "spark" is because we see each other almost everyday at work and It is hard to flirt with her with co-workers around the kitchen. But I REALLY want to try to see if we are meant to be because be if not, then I can actually move on and not feel in the "what if" zone.

We are both passionate cooks, she loves a good adventure and so do I, I make her laugh and she's told personal stuff that not even her girlfriends know. What she doesn't know is how infatuated I am but I don't want to make it clear because I don't want to scare her away.

Questions are:
1. Should I still go on a date with this girl?
2. Is it too late for me?
3. Should I move on?

Any addition advice will truly help because I am confused as hell.

Mattdyd10003 · Nov 10, 2012, 09:00 PM

1. No don't go or actually it's up to you to me it sounds like she isn't interested.
2. I don't understand the question I don't think you really had a chance because she said no at first plus you didn't talk to her that much at the party.
3. I f I were you I would move on just me.

Homegirl 50 · Nov 11, 2012, 07:49 AM

I don't think she is interested, she told you that once. If she'll go out with you again, go but then accept the tun down if she gives it again.
Dating coworkers is not always a good thing. If you break up, you still have to see each other and it can be a mess. Think twice about this.