[DanelleWilhoit]

Okay , So I'm In 7th grade . Me and my boyfriend have been dating for at least 5 months now . He has talked about sex & I have talked about sex . When ever we French Kiss , I get this feeling ? I guess It's a horny feeling lol Idk ? But when I get that feeling I want to have sex with him , Well I don't know how to control It ? Do I want to have sex ? Or do I really not ? I've told him about all the consaquences . And all the S.T.D.S . & He said use condoms I said heeecck no . They only work 98% Of the time . That's what I've learned In R.S.V.P . Well help me out Idk If I want to or not ? Or Is It Just the feeling ? How do I control It If It Is ?

[jshenton27]

First of all... 13 is FAR TOO YOUNG to have sex! Whether you want to or not. Your "feelings" are completely normal and natural. It is a part of puberty and becoming a woman. Your hormones are going crazy, and you probably do want to have sex, BUT, this will not be a pleasurable experience for you and you will not get relief from it. You will bleed, it will hurt, you will be sore, etc. You are not ready for sex until you are mature enough to handle the potential consequences. You can never be safe enough to guarantee no consequnces. If you are educated, financially stable, have health insurance, a stable home that you provide for yourself, a stable job, etc. then you can have sex because you are mature enough to provide for a child. There is no guarantee against STD's. You can get one from sitting on a public toilet, oral sex, etc. Please be mature about these feelings you are having. Experiment with them, by yourself. It is natural. Do not submiss to sex, you are not mature enough at 13, and by all means, if you are going to do it anyway, against all moral and advice, make sure you are on birth control and are using condoms.

[kassyree]

I know the feelings you are getting! Trust me I had them when I was 12 but I have these feelings coming back and I am 14 now! It might be wanting to but don't the feelings do go away but they may come back after a while... you can try playing with yourself but I can not garentee that it will work... it did not for me and you learn not to have sex!but you should talk to your mom about birth control it will help the hormones die down a little bit... I have been on birth control for a month now and the feelings are starting to die down a bit and birth control can make it so you won't get pregnant and if you do have sex make sure the guy uses a condom but before he puts it on make him cheak I it is broken so no mishaps happen because birth control doesn't always work! I'm not saying you have to take the advice but take it in to concideration! Good luck :)

[Alty]

Condoms are far less that 98% effective.

There's an easy way to figure out if you're ready to have sex. Are you ready to be a mom? No form of birth control is 100%, so any time you have sex it's possible to get pregnant. If you're not ready to be a mom, than keep your pants on.

I don't know a single 13 year old that is ready to have sex or face the consequences of sex. That's why there are laws about underage sex.