[lisho1]

I love to have sex and its kind of an addiction but I have never had an orgasm.is anything wrong with me?I have met guys with different sizes an lenghts but still I hv never reached that point .I only orgasm when I use my own hands but I fake it when in bed so as not to upset the one am making love to.

[Fr_Chuck]

No, it is normal and common, many women never orgasm during actual sex, they may if they had one or more before actual sex begins, and of course after. The partner using hande, toys , mouth or other methods will make the girl reach ( called foreplay)

The girl has to tell the boy exactly where, when and how, even an experienced partner, ( and he should know) that women react differently and it is a learning experience.

If you have had one or more before, it is easier at times to reach during. Also no need to fake, the man normally is more worried at that point about his, not yours

[greentree30]

I've never had an orgasm through sex either. It is very normal! I think something like 85% of women haven't orgasmed through sex. But I always have an orgasm through oral sex first. I hope you are getting pleasured in other ways besides sex? There is no reason to fake it! You won't get your needs met if you fake it. You don't need to worry about upsetting a guy if you don't orgasm. If he's a decent guy he's going to want to do whatever he can to make you orgasm in a different way. If he's selfish in bed, then don't waste your time!