[romanticme]

So I met this guy on Facebook a couple of months ago. He is friends with my girl friend and he told her he finds me cute (from a Facebook picture) so he added me up. He commented on one of my posts then we started chatting, asked for my phone number, called me that same night and we talked for hours.

From that day on, we texted all day and Skyped (video call) every night. He says the sweetest things to me and always tells me how pretty I am. He even makes plans about how many kids he wants to have with me and where he wants to settle down after graduating from the university. This went on for two months. I even help him with his university homework sometimes. He always texts me first. Never failed to message me everyday. I am starting to like him.

The only problem is he is from another state. Like 9-hour drive from where I live. I have never met him in person but we sometimes plan on visiting each other's place. We are both university students and very busy but he makes sure we talk or text everyday.

Then one day, he just stopped texting. He was gone in a snap. Every thing's going smoothly but then he just went out of nowhere. I was the last person to text and I don't want to text him first because I don't want to look clingy. He still goes online on Facebook chat and twitter and updates his status and posts but he never texts me anymore. I don't know what I did wrong that made him decide to just leave me hanging like this. He lead me on so bad that I expected this will get serious and we can be together.

Can someone please enlighten me? I would appreciate any reply to this. I really want to know if I should wait for him or just move on?

[talaniman]

Text him and see what happens. Why does he always have to be the first?

[pepper81]

Move on I know it won't be easy but he met someone. He is on a college campus with lots of girls to choose from. Find someone in your area where you live.