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    Oct 20, 2012, 11:54 AM
    I helped a girl to cheat on her boyfriend and now in love with her!
    I met this girl few months ago through the net which I really like and admire but I later find out she has a boyfriend that she is unhappy with. I tried several time advising her to stick to her boyfriend but she still complain now and then. She calls me more than 5 times daily and also spent almost every free time of hers with me. We ended up having sex every day and has continues almost for a month or more and has now develop to something different.

    She tell me how much she loves me and the reason why she can’t be with her current boyfriend due to some religious problem and I know perfect well is the truth they can never marry or have a long term relationship but am scared. Although I know she love me as much as I love her but once a cheat is always a cheat, and also if she cheated with you she'll definitely cheat on you as the say goes.

    So I don’t know whether to give her the chance because we have the same religious background and marry or have a LTR as her family and mine have some good and close relationship. And the best part is my entire family members and friends like her so much and encouraging me anytime they sees us together.

    Any advice out there please
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    Oct 20, 2012, 01:47 PM
    Why do you continue with some one you have doubts about? Why would you give your heart to a cheater? Do others know she is a cheater? How could they NOT? Do you feel like a rebound? How old are you both?

    How about some honesty between you both?
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    Oct 20, 2012, 01:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Why do you continue with some one you have doubts about? Why would you give your heart to a cheater? Do others know she is a cheater? How could they NOT? Do you feel like a rebound? How old are you both?

    How about some honesty between you both?
    Am 23 and she is 20 yrs... she tell's me everything in her current life. And ready to give up everything for me if only I ll love her as much as she does and feel now..
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    Oct 20, 2012, 02:22 PM
    Her feelings are subject to change, a risk you have to be willing to take, but your conflict is in YOUR own mind, because of past behavior by you both.

    You hardly are a shining example of great behavior yourself, since you did go along willingly with bad behavior, so you either get over your own fear and take a chance, or simply leave her alone.

    No one can know if any good can come of this.
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