[carolinagirlusc]

I found a site he's got a profile on saying he's a bisexual man! I confronted him he says he hates gays and he just likes to mess with their mind! I do not believe him a straight man would not go as far to make a profile on a gay site! Help!!

[Fr_Chuck]

So he is bi sexual, what do you need help with ?

Bi sexual is not an excuse to cheat if your relationship is at a point where you stop dating others. Bi just means he likes both.

So if he picks you and decides that he wants a relationship with you, that means he stops dating both men and women. Bi is not an excuse for poor moral values.

[CravenMorhead]

So he's either bisexual or an a$$hole.

So the questions I have are:
1). If he's your Fiancée than why does he have a profile on a site that requires him to describe his sexuality?
2). Does it bother you that he hates homosexuals and bullies them online? This is an abhorrent practice that sets back equality for everyone by decades.
3). Do you believe he is saying the above because he might be bisexual?

Sexuality is a continuum. There is no 100% straight or homosexual. He could be feeling out his homosexual side. Experimenting with the same sex. He might be bisexual but is still trying to resolve what that means for himself.

There are other facts that concern me. First of all that he's on a dating site, straight or gay doesn't matter, while being engaged to you. The question is if he is only using it to BULLY homosexuals or if he is using it to find people to hook up with. Both are concerning when it comes to a long term relationship. If he is openly hostile to homosexuals, what will that teach your children? Acceptance and tolerance? Hell no!

I think you really need to have a LONG talk with your husband to be and make sure you're comfortable with the information before you become his wife, or the marriage might end horribly in a few years.