[bensam]

We know each other for 4 years, and she said you are the best friend I have known in my life, we flirt all the times we even slept together, she asks sometime how was it ? And I say not bad, she think I love her, and still, and I'm not, I think she do love me because the other time she forgot that I'm with her and said ( sometimes I think I love you but I'm not sure ), I asked her how you think of me as a man she said you are too perfect you are cool ,too smart and dangerous I wish I have met a boyfriend like you they are all psycho lol.. well I told her that even we have a chance to be together we can never have a life together, I said it first because I know she will say it, and so I can make her attached more to me and the game that we are playing now is who will make the other say I love you first, and yesterday she said you are like brother and I said after all this time we'v been together as friends to me I can't think of you as girlfriend or a lover because there is no attraction caus of that, every time time I say something like that she try to seduce me more, or make jealous and still she won't admit it, and to tell you the truth she is good, I'm actually a player and I never met someone smart as her, she is trying everything to get me and dominate me, and the problem I am dominant too.

[tickle]

Stop playing games and get down to the business of truly finding out if you two are compatible. It does sound, from your description,that the two of you have some great stuff going on. Talk it out SERIOUSLY.

[bensam]

Well it can't be, caus if I start first then here is what going to happene
Me : bla bla bla...
She : oh you do well I'm sorry if I mislead you or something and you know I love you as brother
Let me explain well, if she find out that I love her than I'm f***, she will do everything to make me bow before her and ask for her love more and more, like a slave, and as do I,
I hope I axplain it well