[dude_love]

Hey everyone... how are you... people

Well... well... just thought I would drop few lines... to see what you guyz have to say

As they say... life is never over... until it is really over...

So... here's how it goes... I don't know if you guyz know or not.. but... few months back I had few postings about some events in my life... of course, it was about this really cool and cute girl I met at a stop while going for my new job... well I thought... this is it... I got my dream job and I saw this girl... it was kind of destiny for me... >>>>> I met her everyday... for a smile that you bring joy and joy what not man... for the whole.day

Bottom line was; I was in love as never before... she would smile and smile and my heart would go for mile and... another mile.. (bad rhyme)

Anyway... just recently I discovered in a conversation that she is """""MARRIED""" man.

Tht's what she said..!. I don't know if she is speaking what she want to say... but man it was kind of late... for her to bring that... after couple of months of conversation...

Now... fact of the matter is>>>>>>.. I am still in love with her... and unfortunately I get to meet her everyday... and that really makes my part of life...

I don't want to break someone's marriage,, tht's not my style... but let that be any reason, I can't stop loving this woman... man


Sometimes it seems that:::::::::: She just want some butterflies in her life by talking to me... nothing else... she never make feel that I am kind of stocking her... she likes talking to me... but I really don't know where exactly all of this can GO... nowhere perhaps:cool...


I would really appreciate... your thoughts... but man... this is love I am talking about.. :cool:..!

[chuff]

Do I understand this right? You talk to a woman occasionally and your in love with her? It doesn't sound like she purposely held anything back from you, it just never came up prior to now in your conversations.

[shygrneyzs]

You fell in love with someone who was nice to you and has a sweet smile and is beautiful. Other than that, no relationship, not even a date. Right? I think you got hit on the head with the infatuation bug combined with the fantasy bug. However, this is normal. It can and does happen to people. Now what you do with this, is settle your brain down and think about this. Seriously. And get over it. This woman is married. You do not say your age, but perhaps you are younger than she? From the way you write, you are. Please correct me if I am wrong. She talks to you because she thinks you are nice and safe to talk to. Take it for it is worth and adjust your thoughts and feelings.

What you feel is not love, trust me. Perhaps a giant crush, which we all get and we do get over. Good luck.

[talaniman]

Sounds like you were smitten and got carried away in your own mind. Now face reality and know that not only is she out of bounds but was never into you as you were into her. This isn't love but a fancy of your own imagination. Fun, but now its over.

[tishee_76]

Hi dude_love

It's not all tragedy and luck outs.. you have made a new friend, formed a wonderful friendship and she has a lovely smile that can change the beat of your heart and put magic in your day... I have something similar, my best friends.. Im not romantically involved with them either but I wouldn't push them away because I can't be their partner.. A lot of days I depend on their smiles..