[Oxy77]

So there`s this girl I really like that I had been flirting with at the bank (she was a teller). And even though I only saw her maybe twice a month tops we really clicked. And the last 2-3 times Ive been in there, she has been giving me hints that she likes me. And it was just casual flirting. I`m pretty sure she would go out with me if I had asked her but I was in a relationship at the time.

I ran into her today at the grocery store and she told me that she had quit her job at the bank and was going to be working in a new field. And once again even though I only saw her like 3 weeks ago she called me by my first name, gave me a big smile and went on about the new place she's going to be working at. And how we`d just have to run into each other at the store from now on. Once we were done talking I looked at her and said the name of her new workplace(like I was going to do something) and she smiled and nodded at me.

I`d really like to at least make an attempt with her. But I don`t really know how. It was a fluke she ran into me today on her last day, caught me off guard and I didn't seize the opportunity. And chances are I won't see her for a while unless I went to her new place of work.

But I think that might be a bad idea. I could go in for one of the services her work provides and hope she's there. But still asking her out in front of new co corkers isn't a good idea.

I can`t seem to find her on any social media. The only place we had in common was the bank.

Does anyone have any idea`s on how I could pursue her.

Thanks so much.

[Fr_Chuck]

First life passes us by and often some people ( girls in your case) we may only see once in passing. If you have any desire to talk or see them again, you have to say something thing, If not, often it may be a "maybe" we remember years latter.

Go to the bank, ask another clerk if anyone knows her and you would like to leave your number for her.

[Oxy77]

I was thinking maybe another route. I work at a club and I can get her free entry passes and stuff like that. Thought maybe I could give her like 4 of them tell her to bring her friends and I'd let them in free. Write her a note and say thanks for all her help over the last few months as the reason. And leave my number/ask for hers in there as well. And drop it off in an envelope for her at work.

That wouldn't be creepy from a woman's perspective would it?