[flower_girl]

My boyfriend is really caring and all but you know when I tell him my problems, he does not tell anything to make me feel better! I mean he does say things like just don't care about it or something like forget it or don't take all those serious! Sometimes it hurts me, when he says things like that, because I expect him to advice and say something sweet! Even when he tells all those dialogues, sometimes its like he really doesn't care tone. I feel this way because after I tell and finish he will be like "so what else" :/ I feel at times even he does not understand me and that he is with me for other reasons! I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21... We are in a relationship for two years now! Also I have told him not to give answers like that when I'm pissed off or hurt but he didn't listen I guess! Why is he acting this way? Is what I'm thinking right? Or I'm I over reacting? :(

[WindChill]

Honestly I think that if he's reacting this way every time your upset or need advice or just words of encouragement it shows that he's really not concerned about you or your feelings at all. When you love someone you put their wants and needs above your own, he should be holding your hand, wiping away your tears and attempting to comfort u. From what you said so far I also think it's safe to say he never asks about what your thinking and feeling and that's a shame. I'm sure your a nice girl and you really do deserve better. I'd leave this guy and move forward. We all want someone who not only listens but understands us and clearly this guy doesn't nor does he care.

[talaniman]

Doesn't matter if he can't, or won't give you the right attention, facts he just doesn't, and maybe this relationship has come to the point of rethinking since talking makes no difference.

[flower_girl]

I ignored him for two days and he had been really sad and doing crazy stuff like not taking his meals, not answering anyone's calls etc. I got to know this from his parents and my friends. So I spoke to him today and told lets break up, he said okay and then he sent a message saying he can't wait without me... and asked for a chance. So I thought of giving him one last chance and told what has to be changed... my decision is okay I guess?

[Homegirl 50]

He said OK awfully fast. Why give him an ultimatum? He either wants to treat you right on his own or he doesn't. But that is up to you. If you give him another chance and he does not change, walk away and don't look back.