[x13x]

Ok I have this guy I'm with right now and he is nice but not my type and I want to end it but I feel bad only because he says he is going to cut himself or kill himself.

And there is this other guy that I like and so nice and I think he is my type. But I don't want to seem like a " ho" so I don't know what to do. I need some help.

[Rize]

I don't understand where you get all this labeling from. How old are you?

Do not ever stay for guilt purposes. The guy needs to understand you are done and he is manipulating you. You need to convey your intentions of letting him go loud and clear. Get professional help if necessary.

If you would want to be with the other guy then you should. You are not a hoe who is floating around. You just do have moved on and so should your boyfriend. Don't call yourself that. No one would have though that way till you brought your up.

You seem young. It's natural part of life. Make your boyfriend understand don't give into his guilt. End it as cleanly as possible and make a decision as stick with it don't float around on your decision that's where you get confused and stuck.

[talaniman]

You get rid of a guy who black mails you into staying with him, then when you are free you can explore and experiment without being a "ho".

[Fr_Chuck]

First why are you with someone who is not your type ?

But the minute , the first time, they say they will cut or hurt theirself if you leave them,
YOU LEAVE them, you never let them blackmail you, tell them they are insecure and childish and that you would never stay with someone who threatens like that.

I will assume you are a younger teen, by your question, while I doubt he is serious, if you want, tell his parents what he has said. If he is an adult, just leave him

[x13x]

Yes I am young and thank for all the help :)