Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    x13x's Avatar
    x13x Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
    New Member
     
    #1

    Oct 1, 2012, 11:09 AM
    What does it mean when you can't choose between two guys?
    Ok I have this guy I'm with right now and he is nice but not my type and I want to end it but I feel bad only because he says he is going to cut himself or kill himself.

    And there is this other guy that I like and so nice and I think he is my type. But I don't want to seem like a " ho" so I don't know what to do. I need some help.
    Rize's Avatar
    Rize Posts: 102, Reputation: 9
    Junior Member
     
    #2

    Oct 1, 2012, 08:08 PM
    I don't understand where you get all this labeling from. How old are you?

    Do not ever stay for guilt purposes. The guy needs to understand you are done and he is manipulating you. You need to convey your intentions of letting him go loud and clear. Get professional help if necessary.

    If you would want to be with the other guy then you should. You are not a hoe who is floating around. You just do have moved on and so should your boyfriend. Don't call yourself that. No one would have though that way till you brought your up.

    You seem young. It's natural part of life. Make your boyfriend understand don't give into his guilt. End it as cleanly as possible and make a decision as stick with it don't float around on your decision that's where you get confused and stuck.
    talaniman's Avatar
    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
    Expert
     
    #3

    Oct 1, 2012, 10:36 PM
    You get rid of a guy who black mails you into staying with him, then when you are free you can explore and experiment without being a "ho".
    Fr_Chuck's Avatar
    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692
    Expert
     
    #4

    Oct 1, 2012, 10:53 PM
    First why are you with someone who is not your type ?

    But the minute , the first time, they say they will cut or hurt theirself if you leave them,
    YOU LEAVE them, you never let them blackmail you, tell them they are insecure and childish and that you would never stay with someone who threatens like that.

    I will assume you are a younger teen, by your question, while I doubt he is serious, if you want, tell his parents what he has said. If he is an adult, just leave him
    x13x's Avatar
    x13x Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
    New Member
     
    #5

    Oct 3, 2012, 07:40 PM
    Yes I am young and thank for all the help :)

Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions

 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

How to choose between two guys [ 11 Answers ]

Okay I just recently broke up with my boyfriend who I have been dating for 8 months now. At the beginning of our relationship his friend Casey liked me and instead I chose Joe. Then later on in the relationship with Joe I couldn't stop thinking about him for some reason. I like Casey and I still...

I have to choose between 2 guys [ 12 Answers ]

I'm havings big problems, let me start by saying I started dating Brett back in high school we dated for 7 months and his ex came over one night, slept with him he got her pregnant and we broke things off and he ended up marrying her because of the kid. He didn't want to marry her and he told...

Two guys.what one to choose [ 1 Answers ]

Ok... I am dating this guy... we have been together for a year and a half now... hes 24 and I'm 19... I live with him and his parents (we are both in school full time). I'm in LOVE with him... I think. Well after I have these feelings I don't know and I'm really confused and want some help... my...


View more questions Search