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    skyetalley Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 26, 2012, 12:37 PM
    I don't know what to do
    I am 23 years old and I am 30 weeks pregnant. I have been seeing my baby's father for going on 4 years now. We recently broke up, but the last couple of weeks we have started talking about getting back together. Well within the last week he has got with my best friend. They have pretty much been together ever since and have been staying with each other. He still calls me occasionally when she goes to work. Last night I seen him while she was at work and I really feel like I need closure that it would really help. So, I asked please just tell me you don't want me that you want her and he said he couldn't do that. Then, he says he thinks he knows what he wants (ME), but says he doesn't want to jump back into it. I can't eat or sleep and I know I need to for my baby, but it so hard. I really want it to work but its hard to continue when he is with someone else. I don't know what to do. Please give any advice.
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    Sep 26, 2012, 12:57 PM
    If he really wanted to be with you now, nothing would stop him. Taking care of yourself and the baby NOW is your first priority, not him.

    Let him go and play games with someone else.

    You have closure, a lovely being growing inside you and that is your hope for the future, not him.

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