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    crazy_monkey Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 15, 2009, 03:58 PM
    Why do I feel so attached to my boyfriend after we hand sex.





    Ok so I had sex with my boyfriend two weeks ago. I feel really attached to him now. I wasn't that attached before. It's like I can't let him go. I have to have him everywhere I go and It's hard when he's not around. I'm so confused why I've grown so attached to him after we had sex. It scares me because he seems to grow more distant to me. I don't know what to do. Help!:(
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    Feb 15, 2009, 04:02 PM

    You're becoming obsessed, of course he seems more distant, you're suffocating him.

    Sex in a mature relationship can bring two people closer together, but it's never healthy to be together 24/7.

    You need to find a hobby, be on your own a bit, otherwise you'll just push him further away. No body likes to feel like they're completely responsible for another persons happiness and sanity.

    Good luck.
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    Sep 26, 2012, 09:00 AM
    Isn't nothing wrong with being attached to your boyfriend I'm attached to mine and we have a very healthy relationship.. But its also all about personal space..

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