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    Knickerbocker24 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 25, 2012, 11:11 PM
    Me and my girlfriend don't agree on having a baby
    So about a week ago me and my girlfriend found out she is 6 weeks pregnant. We preciously talked about pregnancy and agreed we both are not ready for a child. However over the past week she has flipped dramatically and is attached, abortion is now out of the,question. Idk what to do I feel like this is starting so badly, its not what we originally agreed on and I'm scared. She's confident but I don't know why! We both currently aren't working, were always low on money and can't even take care of ourselves. I know I still have about 7months to make a huge change but she really caught me off guard with this. Claims I'm being selfish and I said no I'm being realistic. So I don't know she wants it and I do too. But I'm just really really worried. I don't want her to have problems with birth or be to poor to keep the baby, I would die. Which is why I'm pushing abortion. She won't go through with it and I respect that. Umm, I have to step it up . Tremendously! And California sucks fyi. Please pray for us. Thank you
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    C0bra_M3nace Posts: 1,296, Reputation: 223
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    Sep 26, 2012, 04:01 AM
    I'm not entirely sure what your question is but if she isn't willing to have an abortion then it looks like you need to find a job.
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    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692
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    Sep 26, 2012, 05:16 AM
    Many people for lots of reasons don't chose abortion and if you push it too much now, you will end up very poorly on this.
    1. she will have it and you will be blamed for it, when she gets depression over it.
    2. she does not have it, but resents your pushing.

    At this point your best bet is to figure who to make it work, and/or how to pay child support if relationship does not work

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