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girl in LDR · Sep 25, 2012, 05:49 PM

Hey I'm new to this and honstley need advice from otther people that aren't my friends . So uh as you can see I'm in a long distance relationship. And its my first one and we were doing preety good . But then my cousin (she lives near my bf) tells me that my boyfriend told her boyfriend that she was cheating on him (my boyfriend and her boyfriend are like best friends) then she tells me oh yeah his cheating on you.. and she tells me she saw him one Sunday (the same Sunday I talk to him before he went out ) but after she found out on that specific Sunday I talk to her mid week andshe didn't tell me but then she tells me a week later which was the Sunday she told me my boyfriend toldher boyfriend that.. (by the way her andher boyfriend are fine now ) and anyway I asked my cousin why she's telling me now and she said she forgot .(I think thatsbull you don't forget something like that) anyway I confronted my boyfriend andhewas calm about it he didn't yell at me or anything and I only had like 8 minutes on the card I bought and so I had to get off the phone early. Anyway I called him the next day he told me that he dose know the girl my cousin was talking about but that they were just friends and yeah they do hangout and yeah that he goesto her house and yeah he told me this all calmy and then he said that my cousin is lying so I said OK talk to her then he said okay then he said I barely see her but then he said you know what I will go to her house and I said okay . So that's where we left it at . But I'm still anonned you know and I'm going to see him in December and hopefully I will find out thentruth but do you guys have any advice till then ? Anyway please answer my question it will mean a lot . With love girl in a LDR

Alty · Sep 25, 2012, 06:01 PM

I really didn't understand much of your post, it's very poorly written.

Are you saying that your boyfriend cheated on you and your cousin told you about it? If so, what does your cousins relationship with her boyfriend have to do with it?

Your post is so confusing.

Homegirl 50 · Sep 25, 2012, 06:07 PM

Why is your boyfriend going to talk to your cousin, what is that supposed to do?
Why don't you two just be friends. You don't see each other anyway, then both of you can see other people.
My guess is, he probably was out with the girl. LDR are hard. How old are you two?
When you are teens you should be able to see other people. When you're not even living in the same place, dating makes no sense.