[davidbeekem]

Hey I'm david,
I have a girlfriend that I been with for 1 year. She is very busy. We text and hardly on the phone. Our relationship is bipolar . One day were happy and the next day we argue. I feel like I show too much emotion to her because I don't get it back. I show her a lot of attention on Facebook by poating our picture on the walls and she doesn't bother wanting to do that. She doesn't show affection much. I don't think her main focus is on me sometimes. I mean I know she got all of these activities on weekends and she doesn't have time to text or call but when she does she on Facebook. Mainly, I think she likes other guyimes she told me about her past I would get mad or think she likes them. Yes I would get jealous and yes I would get mad. Think that's why she is holding back or turning away. I wish she opens up more to me or want to spend some alone time. But sometimes I don't think she even thinks about us.

[anon21]

Hey bro, I've been there. Me and my girlfriend are in r 15th months now. She maybe doing that as an act because she knows that you will always be there for her and she can see how much you worry about her feelings that is not same like yours.

Be calm, positive and uplifting and don't get so mch attached on your emotional. Remember you're a guy, girls wants boyfriend who are brave enough and have some under control emotional in a healthy manner.

The more you think that way the more you are hurting yourself and might be the way to push her more from you. Do some new things like when she has day off surprise her and have a time together alone.

Putting so much attention on Facebook to her won't solve your problem. Grow up, Ask her for a date. Go somewhere new place.

Don't be too much dramatic go with the flow in a healthy manner