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Angie92 · Sep 20, 2012, 09:57 PM

I'm ashamed to ask anyone.ill try to make this quick.
March 16 I got pregnant by my ex boyfriend and had an early miscarriage on April 20 or so but we broke up bfore my micarriage and I got with my current boyfriend not knowing I was pregnant.
My boyfriend and I fought and I thought it was officially done since we had no contact so in April 10 (during miscarriage I'm guessing, still not knowing about pregnancy) I had sex with my ex.
My current boyfriend wanted to get back so we did. My ob assured me bby was going to be gone out of my system naturally by April 17.
So I had light/semi regular bleeding till April27 and I'm currently pregnant due for Jan 25 because they're guiding themselves with my 1st period date (April 20) but I want to cry because of my mistake and immaturity. Is it possible it can be my ex baby?
I mean I took a pregnancy test beginning of may it came out negative then I took my second one may 17 (suppose period) then it came out positive. I feel ashamed for what I did.. pls help.

Angie92 · Sep 20, 2012, 10:01 PM

Oh yeah I'm currently 21wks and 6day pregnant. Forrsure my miscarriage happened but I want to know if having sex with my ex April 10 makes it possible?

Curlyben · Sep 20, 2012, 10:32 PM

How can I know the EXACT day I got pregnant? - NO, not actually possible.

If there is an issue of paternity then a DNA test is the only method to determined fatherhood and parental responsibility.

J_9 · Sep 20, 2012, 10:55 PM

There is no way to know the exact day that the sperm met the egg. It takes several days for the sperm to travel into the fallopian tube and several more days for the fertilized egg to travel back down to the uterus.

Without a camera in the fallopian tube (yes, it has been done), there is no way to know when you got pregnant as dating is nothing more than an educated guess.

Since paternity is at question here, you will have to have a DNA test done once the baby is born.

Fr_Chuck · Sep 20, 2012, 11:47 PM

First the doctor will give you a estimated conception date, it is good, give or take one to two weeks.

Unless you only had sex once in a coupld month period, there is really no way to know w an exact date. It will only be estimates

If there is a paternity issues, that will have to wait till the child is born and a DNA test is done

ScottGem · Sep 21, 2012, 03:14 AM

The only way to know the exact day would be if you had ONE day where you engaged in intercourse during a 2-3 month period.

Angie92 · Sep 21, 2012, 03:24 PM

But I had sex with my ex only ONCE which was on April 10. The rest of the days after that in the month I had sex with my boyfriend.

Angie92 · Sep 21, 2012, 03:26 PM

Originally Posted by ScottGem

The only way to know the exact day would be if you had ONE day where you engaged in intercourse during a 2-3 month period.

I mean I did have sex with my ex ONCE which was April 10th. After that I never did again and had sex with my boyfriend since April 15th.. and dr are guiding themselves to my period April 20th..

Alty · Sep 21, 2012, 03:33 PM

Originally Posted by Angie92

but i had sex with my ex only ONCE which was on April 10. the rest of the days after that in the month i had sex with my bf.

It only takes one time and one sperm.

Angie92 · Sep 21, 2012, 04:39 PM

That I know but that's where I'm lost. I had sex with my ex April 10th... could it be possible for it to be his? If you read my passage I also said how I had my miscarriage on the 17th.

Alty · Sep 21, 2012, 06:14 PM

Originally Posted by Angie92

that i know but thats where im lost. i had sex with my ex April 10th...could it be possible for it to be his? if u read my passage i also said how i had my miscarriage on the 17th.

You seem to be arguing about this with those that have responded. Why is that? If you know it's not your exes then why did you ask?

I don't think you want an answer, I think you want someone to confirm what you want to believe. If that's the case, then ask your friends, they'll tell you what you want to hear. On this site we state facts, we don't coddle.

Fact is, if there are two potential fathers, then a DNA test is the only way to know who the daddy is. There's no way to guess by dates, if there were, we wouldn't need DNA tests, and Maury Povich wouldn't have a TV show.

Enigma1999 · Sep 21, 2012, 06:33 PM

Originally Posted by Angie92

that i know but thats where im lost. i had sex with my ex April 10th...could it be possible for it to be his? if u read my passage i also said how i had my miscarriage on the 17th.

The ONLY way you will know who the father is... is to have a DNA test done. Other than that, we can't tell you exactly when, where, and with whom you got pregnant by. Sorry.

Angie92 · Sep 24, 2012, 10:17 AM

Besides getting it only take one time, I was going through a chemical pregnancy (very early miscarriage) during the 10th of April, is it possible to get pregnant DURING a process of miscarriage?

Angie92 · Oct 2, 2012, 05:08 PM

Originally Posted by Alty

You seem to be arguing about this with those that have responded. Why is that? If you know it's not your exes then why did you ask?

I don't think you want an answer, I think you want someone to confirm what you want to believe. If that's the case, then ask your friends, they'll tell you what you want to hear. On this site we state facts, we don't coddle.

Fact is, if there are two potential fathers, then a DNA test is the only way to know who the daddy is. There's no way to guess by dates, if there were, we wouldn't need DNA tests, and Maury Povich wouldn't have a TV show.

Yes ma'am you are very right. I just want it to be me that's crazy -.- but I spoke to an OB/GYN unfortunately, never thought id be in the position but like I kept responding about the miscarriage, thankfully its nothing because I was pregnant at the time my ex incident happened. I really do appreciate everyone's answers. I spoke to my boyfriend and he is happy. I told him the truth of course, I can't lie. Lol thank you guys a lot :]