[stargirl78]

I met this man about 3 months ago. After 3 days of knowing him our connection was deep we got very intimate In every way quickly. I can feel his every emotion like a magnetic force in my gut that just is so strong. We both agree that there is a higher reason we were brought together but don't exactly know why. I've prayed and prayed on this subject its like we were meant to be together but can't because of our own circumstances.today I got a sign I've been looking for I think that those emotions and feelings that I have were portrayed on him because my true soulmate was very near and this man I met is suppose to lead me to my true soulmate. Am I crazy or is this possible or am I just scared of my own emotions and am hoping this man isn't my soulmate these intense feelings I got in the pit of my soul tell me this very serious and spiritual situation. Someone please help.

[smoothy]

That isn't soul mate... that's lust... you have to actually KNOW someone really well before they can become a soul mate and that can't happen in three months. And those other feelings you have is the voice of reason in the back of your head trying to tell you that.

And incidentally its spelled BECAUSE not because.

[Fr_Chuck]

I agree, there is really no such thing as a soul mate, there is hormones, lust ( which is what happened within a few days) and as months go on, those slow down and you get doubt.

There is hard work, that is it, a relationship takes lots and lots of work, talking, communication, give and take

One has to sit down with the other side and see if a relationship is working, were it needs to go and what is happening in it.

[slapshot_oi]

Your entire post is confusing. So yes, you are confused about your soulmate.