[Danii81211]

Dam where do I start I am only 17 years of age and my boyfriend is 18.. we been together for a long time about 4years to be completely honest.. but I am not quite sure if I want to spend the rest of my life with him.. we have had sexual intercourse and it feels good.. my mom found out about this and well she wants to marry us and he is ready to get marry and I am not I mean I have my dough's and I am not quite sure I do a list of good and bad and they are both the same and I am scare if I don't marry him I am ganna let him go and won't find a guy like him or if I do marry I am scare I will do the biggest mistake of my life.. please help

[smoothy]

Don't get married... would be the worst mistake of your life... you will certainly find a better guy... and in a few years he is likely to NOT even be what you like anymore...

Nobody, and I mean nobody that has any doubt should get married... and that's as true at 17 as it is at 77.

[wishful_dreams]

You are young, you will meet many many many more guys in your life. You should not have to be pushed into a marriage at this age just because you had sex with this guy. Your mother should not be trying to force you into marriage at this age because of that. Chances are a couple years down the road you are both going to be completely different people and the marriage will not be what you want it to be.

If there is ANY doubt in your mind about marrying this guy, do not go through with it. You will only be putting yourself in a miserable position. Being unhappy in a marriage is miserable, believe me.