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visitha saranga · Sep 13, 2012, 09:09 AM

I was loved girls in past years.she is the girl that I'm looked very kind &onest.her father allso get it me as a proposal.but he doesn't know we had an affare between 6 years.
Finally we dicide to say it to our perants.her father,my father &my mother was accept it. But her mother is hightly rejected it. And allso her mother said she will be suvicide when this marrige happan.
We can't get that option. Also my girl friend can't live without her mother.allso we can't live happyly when her mother die.
Allso we can't live without each ather.
Finally we thougt to finish our love with our life.I'dont know is it correct but allso we haven't any ather choice.her mother is power full & kindless.she never gives permition.allso she surlly make suvicide when we married.we don't won't get ather person life to make our life. That is because we dicided to leave from life.
Please tell us if we correct or not.

aliseaodo · Sep 13, 2012, 09:15 AM

"we thought to finish our love with our life.....that is becouse we dicided to leave from life"

I am assuming that English is not your first language, I'm having a bit of trouble understanding your post... are you saying that you and your girlfriend are planning to committ suicide?

visitha saranga · Sep 14, 2012, 10:47 AM

Originally Posted by aliseaodo

"we thought to finish our love with our life.....that is becouse we dicided to leave from life"

I am assuming that English is not your first language, I'm having a bit of trouble understanding your post...are you saying that you and your girlfriend are planning to committ suicide??

Yes, both of us got that dicition.I'm sory about my english grammar.becouse my mother langage is sinhala.I not well improove english

joypulv · Sep 14, 2012, 10:51 AM

Her mother is being horrible and selfish. I don't even believe she will kill herself. Your love comes first. Her mother will change her mind when she misses her daughter. If she loves her daughter, she will want her to be happy, not miserable. Therefore it's clear she only cares about herself.
You have FIVE of you to get her to see how awful she is. At the very least your parents and her father. Ask for their help. If she still says she will kill herself, it's not your fault if she does. I don't think she will.

aliseaodo · Sep 14, 2012, 11:03 AM

I absolutley agree with joypulv... and visitha - no apologies needed for your English - I guaranty its better than my Sinhala!

Cat1864 · Sep 14, 2012, 11:59 AM

Why does her mother object to the marriage?
How long ago did you finally tell your parents?
Has her mother had time to think about it?
Is there anyone her mother respects (other than her husband) who might speak to her on your behalf?
How well do her parents know you?
How much did her mother know about you before the proposal?

I suggest giving her some time to think about your proposal and her daughter's future without any of the interested parties putting pressure on her. Give her time to calm down and to think more rationally about the situation.

With life, there is hope and time to work on the issues. Today, she may object to the marriage, but there is always a chance she might change her mind.