[mhandie]

Me and him been together for 6 months and all of a sudden his attitude change towards me. He don't call as usual he don't text as usual. So I text him and he's replying with short answers I asked what's the matter he said he don't want to be with nobody he's trying to stay away from everyone. He sont want to be in a relationship with anyone he just want to focus on himselve right now. But he's going to maintain a friendship. He says he don't want people to look at him as the bad one because when things to work out they look at him as the bad one and he don't want that. I asked to see him he said sure but never came I called him but he never answered. He said I don't get what he's trying to say so we will talk when we see. So I said when will that be he said when you less busy I said I'm less busy now and he never wrote back. Please help me bbe cause I think in starting to love him.

[aboone922007]

I know it's frustrating when people aren't up-front with you and they beat around the bush. It's also hard when emotions are involved, but try to step back and see that it's better to be with someone who is straight-forward and honest and who won't play around with you. There could be many reasons for him saying he just wants to be friends and it may be true that he just doesn't want a girlfriend. Maybe one day he'll come around, but don't hang around waiting. Enjoy your girlfriends and family.

[Homegirl 50]

I think you need to listen to what he has said and leave him alone.