Blowjobs

c23 · Sep 3, 2012, 04:05 PM

So my boyfriend and I have been together for some time now.. and he's very giving in bed, and I would like to eventually give him a blowjob, however there is one small issue, he has a mole on his penis(always been there), and it's a turn off for me, and I obviously won't tell him that , so what am I supposed to do ?

teacherjenn4 · Sep 3, 2012, 04:18 PM

No one is perfect, so if he is giving, then you should be giving. If you can't overlook the mole, you are eventually going to have to explain this to your boyfriend.

JudyKayTee · Sep 3, 2012, 05:05 PM

Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

No one is perfect, so if he is giving, then you should be giving. If you can't overlook the mole, you are eventually going to have to explain this to your boyfriend.

Right, find a boyfriend who has no disfigurement.

Fr_Chuck · Sep 3, 2012, 05:09 PM

So keep your eyes closed.

Sounds very very petty to me

Enigma1999 · Sep 3, 2012, 05:58 PM

Holy guacaMOLE!

JudyKayTee · Sep 3, 2012, 05:58 PM

Originally Posted by Enigma1999

Holy guacaMOLE!

Go to your room immediately!

Enigma1999 · Sep 3, 2012, 05:59 PM

Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Go to your room immediately!

Haha I couldn't resist.

smoothy · Sep 3, 2012, 06:11 PM

Exactly how old are you both? Meaning the op.

Cat1864 · Sep 3, 2012, 06:28 PM

c23, how have you dealt with the mole being a 'turn-off' so far in your relationship?

c23 · Sep 4, 2012, 07:20 AM

Originally Posted by smoothy

Exactly how old are you both? Meaning the op.

I'm 18, he's 24

c23 · Sep 4, 2012, 07:22 AM

Originally Posted by Cat1864

c23, how have you dealt with the mole being a 'turn-off' so far in your relationship?

I have done other stuff , which didn't include touching it..

smoothy · Sep 4, 2012, 07:46 AM

Ok, thanks for the ages...

You just live with the mole. You don't have them removed.. and its not going away. Eventually you aren't going to notice it. Unless of course its big enough to appear to be a third testicle... then if its really that much of a deal breaker... then consider moving on.

greentree30 · Sep 5, 2012, 10:41 AM

It is just a mole! We get moles anywhere on our body. If I were you I'd probably think it's unique and give it a kiss every time I went down there! Lol I'm a women and have a mole on my outer labia and my husband likes it. Sorry if that's TMI.
Every man is going to be different in many ways. Some guys penis's are crooked, or not circumcised, or really big, or small, a ton of hair, not much hair, the list goes on! You might miss his mole when you encounter something you don't like with the next guy!

greentree30 · Sep 5, 2012, 10:51 AM

I meant to suggest that you should try to change your attitude and be more open minded. If something as small as that bothers you then chances are a lot of things will turn you off with other guys. You could end up losing the love of you life over nothing.