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    Ifeelsoalone5 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 2, 2012, 10:40 PM
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    Ill be 17 in a few days and my boyfriend is 18 turning 19 in November and my parents have sat down with him and stuff and there OK with him. I don't drink do drugs or have sex but my dads whole family thinks I'm a whore because I talk about way to many guys whitch I admit I do but anyway they say I dress like it but I'm always in jeans and a tank top. Its stressing me out because the first thing they say is oh how's your guys and the problems and I no my dad thinks I am to but mostly my dads family thinks I am because of my boyfriend... Im stressing out and I don't know what to do because I can't handle it I've stopped talking about boys I've made sure my shirts pulled up my jeans are fine I just don't no anymore
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    Sep 3, 2012, 04:46 AM
    An old saying if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, most likely it is a duck.

    You will be judged by almost everyone by how you look and what you say. That is life and will be like that till the day you die ( and they will most likely talk about how you are dressed in the casket)

    So they already think this and it may take years to change them , if they ever do change their opinion. So you have to just move on with your life. There will always be others who don't like you for some reason
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    Sep 3, 2012, 03:05 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Ifeelsoalone5 View Post
    Ill be 17 in a few days and my bf is 18 turning 19 in november and my parents have sat down with him and stuff and there ok with him. I dont drink do drugs or have sex but my dads whole family thinks im a whore because I talk about way to many guys whitch I admit I do but anyways they say I dress like it but im always in jeans and a tank top. Its stressing me out bc the first thing they say is oh hows your guys and the problems and I no my dad thinks I am to but mostly my dads family thinks I am bc of my bf... Im stressing out and idk what to do bc I can't handle it iv stoped talking about boys iv made sure my shirts pulled up my jeans are fine I just dont no anymore

    I don't think talk to way too many guys makes you a whore - how many guys is too many guys?

    I do wonder about the jeans and tank top, though.

    I don't understand much of this, but I'm with FrChuck. Something is giving "them" this impression of you.

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