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    Aug 30, 2012, 03:58 PM
    How do you know when you're in love? Should I tell her?
    Okay, so I reallllly reallllly like this girl, I mean I think about her non stop, talking to her or even just texting her a little during the day makes my day. I love all the little quirky things she does and all the little things about her and everything she does just drives me crazy. I feel so comfortable around her it's crazy. I don't even feel that comfortable around my family. I can talk to her literally all night about nothing and not get tired. I could talk to her all day and not get bored. I love her smile and when we hang out I remember being happier than I have been in a while. I am genuinely happy when I'm with her which is weird for me because I've had some happen to my family, so I haven't had much to be happy about. She likes me too, she told me she really does like me a lot but she's so confused because she has a boyfriend. I don't want to be "just friends" with her. She's the most beautiful and amazing girl I have ever met, she looks beautiful in whatever she wears. I want to tell this girl I love her, but I've never actually been in love so I don't know what it feels like to be in love. Am I in love? Should I tell her?
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    Aug 30, 2012, 04:28 PM
    Well before doing anything I would make sure if she loves me or not
    If she truly loves you why is she still with her boyfriend?
    Do you know if she is happy with her current relationship?
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    Aug 30, 2012, 04:58 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Inso The Jester View Post
    well before doing anything i would make sure if she loves me or not
    if she truly loves you why is she still with her boyfriend?
    do you know if she is happy with her current relationship?
    She's not happy per se. He makes her cry and doesn't treat her right.
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    Aug 30, 2012, 05:05 PM
    If that is true why is she still with him?
    If she is into you tell her how you feel
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    Aug 30, 2012, 05:07 PM
    She has a boyfriend. If she felt anything for you, she'd leave her boyfriend. If she wasn't in love with her boyfriend, then even without you waiting in the wings, she'd leave.

    She's staying with him for a reason.

    She's off limits.

    Kiddo, if you have to ask if you're in love, then you're not.
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    Aug 30, 2012, 05:46 PM
    Any idea what the reason is?
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    Aug 30, 2012, 05:56 PM
    You need to leave her alone regardless of what you feel. She is off limits to you.
    Stay away from her until she is single.
    Is this the same girl you have been asking variations of the same question about for the past month?
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    Aug 30, 2012, 05:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by viciouscanelo View Post
    Okay, so I reallllly reallllly like this girl, I mean I think about her non stop, talking to her or even just texting her a little during the day makes my day. I love all the little quirky things she does and all the little things about her and everything she does just drives me crazy. I feel so comfortable around her it's crazy. I don't even feel that comfortable around my family. I can talk to her literally all night about nothing and not get tired. I could talk to her all day and not get bored. I love her smile and when we hang out I remember being happier than I have been in a while. I am genuinely happy when I'm with her which is weird for me because I've had some happen to my family, so I haven't had much to be happy about. She likes me too, she told me she really does like me a lot but she's so confused because she has a boyfriend. I don't want to be "just friends" with her. She's the most beautiful and amazing girl I have ever met, she looks beautiful in whatever she wears. I want to tell this girl I love her, but i've never actually been in love so I don't know what it feels like to be in love. Am I in love? Should I tell her?

    Let's see - she has a boyfriend but you are interested in pursuing her? If you were her boyfriend what would you want the person who has the "crush" on her do?

    Find someone who is available, because what goes around comes around.
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    Aug 30, 2012, 05:59 PM
    Is this the same girl you have been asking variations of the same question about for the past month?
    The answers have not changed.
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    Aug 30, 2012, 06:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Is this the same girl you have been asking variations of the same question about for the past month?
    the answers have not changed.
    Either that or there's an echo in here - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...el-686980.html
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    #11

    Aug 30, 2012, 06:07 PM
    Helloooooo
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    Aug 30, 2012, 07:25 PM
    Yes.
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    #13

    Aug 31, 2012, 09:11 AM
    Leave her alone. She is with someone else. How you feel about her is immaterial.

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