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    Aug 28, 2012, 10:47 AM
    Trust issues
    Hi Guys,

    Some time ago I had a post about affection, now it's more serious. I'm with my girlfriend almost 1 year together, but the thing is - I don't trust her. And to make things worse, she didn't do anything wrong to me nor did she do anything to lose my trust. I'm head over heels for her but I'm scared that when I will completely trust her and hypothetically speaking when she will hurt me than I won't be able to pull myself together. And not only her, I don't trust my best friend whom I know 8 years. I only trust my parents, I don't even trust my brother. I didn't have any problems (not serious ones) in my life I had the best childhood ever. But why can't I trust her, why can't I trust anyone. What can I do to trust them? I'm scared that if I don't start to trust her that I will lose her and I can't do that,she means the world to me... I know it sounds funny, she means the world to him but he doesn't trust her... I just don't know what to do anymore.. I know she didn't do anything wrong...
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    Aug 28, 2012, 11:58 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by affectionguy View Post
    Hi Guys,

    some time ago i had a post about affection, now it's more serious. I'm with my girlfriend almost 1 year together, but the thing is - i don't trust her. And to make things worse, she didn't do anything wrong to me nor did she do anything to lose my trust. I'm head over heels for her but i'm scared that when i will completely trust her and hypothetically speaking when she will hurt me than i won't be able to pull myself together. And not only her, i don't trust my best friend whom i know 8 years. i only trust my parents, i don't even trust my brother. i didn't have any problems (not serious ones) in my life i had the best childhood ever. But why can't i trust her, why can't i trust anyone. What can i do to trust them? I'm scared that if i don't start to trust her that I will lose her and i can't do that,she means the world to me .... I know it sounds funny, she means the world to him but he doesn't trust her... I just don't know what to do anymore.. I know she didn't do anything wrong...


    Have you discussed your feelings with a professional, a counsellor, teacher, Physician?

    You know that your lack of trust is only going to hurt you in life.
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