[msmit]

Me and my boyfriend hv been dating for 3 years nw, he used to do everything for me bt nw I am the one doing everythn for hm bt he doesn't even appreciate me and I am so tired of mothering him, I want the way out but I still hv feeling for hm. What do I do?

[christianf]

Tell him how you feel, I know it's easier said than done but if he has any respect for you he will listen and take in what you are saying

[joypulv]

Right - if you can't communicate your feelings and needs and he isn't interested in meeting you half way, you need to break up, even if it means suffering for a while and being lonely. You can't hang onto a past that isn't there.