Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    Vanna98's Avatar
    Vanna98 Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Aug 25, 2012, 06:01 PM
    Relationship problems !
    My boyfriend of 4 months went to a football game with me and my friends last night... I love my boyfriend but lately he's been really annoying me. Like he's to clingy and I just don't like that. He writes songs for me , and all that stuff I told one of my best friends and they said I should break up with him , but I don't want to hurt him and I don't want to make the wrong decision and screw everything up. What should I do ? And why don't I love him anymore ? /:
    Vanna98's Avatar
    Vanna98 Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #2

    Aug 25, 2012, 06:21 PM
    Breakup with boyfriend
    I'm thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend of 4 months because he's just annoying me lately... One of my best friends for like 3 years have been talking lately and he's my "dad" and I'm his "daughter" we say that because he's protective over me and all . But we're not related at all. I like him a lot! and I went to one of his football games last night and waited till he got done playing , by that time my boyfriend left and I ran up to him and hugged him he was all sweaty and oddly I liked it . We're going to the mall tomorrow . And I really like him what should I do ? Is he the reason that I don't like my boyfriend anymore?! Please help
    joypulv's Avatar
    joypulv Posts: 21,591, Reputation: 2941
    current pert
    		  
    #3

    Aug 25, 2012, 06:49 PM
    Lots of attention is romantic at first, and charming just to know someone wants to spend that much time with you and doing things for you. But after a while it can get suffocating. You need to TELL him! Give him a chance to back off a little. If he doesn't, or if you still have lost feelings for him even if he gives you more room, then... you break up of course. Nicely but firmly.
    Homegirl 50's Avatar
    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
    Dating & Teen Expert
    		  
    #4

    Aug 25, 2012, 07:07 PM
    Could be you didn't love him in the first place, just that new relationship romance.
    Don't stay with someone because you don't want to hurt their feelings.
    Just be polite and tell him you are no longer feeling the same way and you think breaking up would be the best thing for both of you.
    Do it and then NC, this gives him the space he needs to get over you.
    Vanna98's Avatar
    Vanna98 Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #5

    Aug 25, 2012, 09:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Could be you didn't love him in the first place, just that new relationship romance.
    Don't stay with someone because you don't want to hurt their feelings.
    Just be polite and tell him you are no longer feeling the same way and you think breaking up would be the best thing for both of you.
    Do it and then NC, this gives him the space he needs to get over you.
    Thanks , I told him I didn't feel the same in the relationship . But he hasn't txted me back... At all. /:
    Homegirl 50's Avatar
    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
    Dating & Teen Expert
    		  
    #6

    Aug 26, 2012, 07:46 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Vanna98 View Post
    Thanks , I told him I didn't feel the same in the relationship . But he hasn't txted me back... At all. /:
    Then leave it alone. You had your say.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Relationship problems in 2nd week of relationship [ 5 Answers ]

I'm hoping I can get some meaningful advice on my situation. If not, I really don't know what to do. The whole summer, a girl I work with had been trying to hook me up with this friend of hers who was interested in me. I saw a picture of her, and she was cute.. But everyone is cute, so if I...

Relationship problems [ 43 Answers ]

Hi all. I am going through a very hard time right now in my relationship with my girl friend. A week ago, I sense that there are some changes going on by my partner. She is not as sexual as she was, her attitude has changed, she is always telling me that she is tired, and she tries to avoid...

Relationship problems [ 4 Answers ]

How do I get my ex-boyfriend to see that he made a mistake by breaking up with me How do I get my ex-boyfriend to see the he made a mistake by breaking up with me

Relationship problems [ 2 Answers ]

Hi everyone .I'm new to this so please bear with me OK.I was with a woman for 2 1/2 yrs and everything was fine and good until 10 months ago when thig got so bad that we would argue with each other all the time .then she had went into the hospital .I wanted so badly to be there for her when she got...

Relationship Problems [ 4 Answers ]

Although I was raised by my biological mother, I have never felt loved or nurtured. My childhood memories are all painful ones. If anything, I remember hate and rage and not love. As a parent I have over-compensated with my children and have given them an abundance of love and attention and have...

View more questions Search