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    lawrance cena Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 25, 2012, 09:09 AM
    How to propose a 20 years older married woman
    Hi.

    I want to tell something about my feeling. I am interesting a married woman now. But she don't know this. She is about 20 years older than me. Moreover, she is OK with her husband. I know that I am crazy about that. I want to tell or show my feelings to her. But I can't. I think this is not easy. I love her because of her beauty. She is a little sexy. But these are just minor. The main is that when I see her I feel the very good unknown feeling.

    I don't want to disturb her pleasant marriage situation. Let me talk freely. If I am rude, I'm so apologized.

    I want to live with her. If she can live with me as her ex-husband(I mean hidden) and don't let her husband to know, I can accept this. But actually, she don't my feelings yet.

    So. Please help me. I request the advices with respectably.
    Give me some valuable advices. But don't give me advices which is for running away.

    OK
    Thank you so much for reading my message and I wish I can get good advices.
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    Curlyben Posts: 18,514, Reputation: 1860
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    Aug 25, 2012, 09:13 AM
    Seriously She is MARRIED and therefore OUT OF BOUNDS.

    You have already acknowledged the fact she is content with her husband, so you have NO reason to even consider a relationship with her.

    BACK OFF.
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    Magpie95 Posts: 97, Reputation: 14
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    Aug 25, 2012, 09:26 AM
    There is no solution to what you want. She is married, end of story. Show her respect and leave her alone.
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    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
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    Aug 25, 2012, 09:41 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by lawrance cena View Post
    Hi.

    I want to tell something about my feeling. I am interesting a married woman now. But she don't know this. She is about 20 years older than me. Moreover, she is ok with her husband. I know that i am crazy about that. I want to tell or show my feelings to her. But i can't. I think this is not easy. I love her because of her beauty. She is a little sexy. But these are just minor. The main is that when i see her i feel the very good unknown feeling.

    I don't want to disturb her pleasant marriage situation. Let me talk freely. If i am rude, i'm so apologized.

    I want to live with her. If she can live with me as her ex-husband(i mean hidden) and don't let her husband to know, i can accept this. But actually, she don't my feelings yet.

    So. please help me. I request the advices with respectably.
    Give me some valuable advices. But don't give me advices which is for running away.

    OK
    Thank you so much for reading my message and i wish i can get good advices.

    No, I wouldn't run away. Explain how you feel to her husband and then follow his advice.

    It's the only "fair" solution.
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