Originally Posted by
Whitetigerkitty
You should be allowed to tell him to stop, especially if it is bothering you.
If he cares, he will stop because it bothers you.
Not all men need porn to be truly happy. You sound like you want a relationship with a man who doesn't need it.
My boyfriend does not watch porn and I know this because I am with him most of the time and know where he is when we are separated (its not because I want to know or be with him 24/7 either lol. I ask for my space). He lets me know what's going on while I am at school and tells me almost everything about his life because he has accepted the fact I'm just extremely curious about different things.
An honest relationship is good if it is serious enough and you will both have to talk if he will accept the fact he can not do this anymore or you will have to accept the fact he has to "be a guy"
Hopefully this kinda helps or gives you an idea or a different perspective. I have been in my relationship for a little over a year too, and he is 23 atm while I am only 19. You may say I have not had my share of experiences. Well, maybe I have not to certain extremes, but this is just my experience with a guy who I believe knows how not to disrespect me and accept what I disapprove of.
The guy watches porn. It isn't hard to delete a computer's search history. Trust me. You're only 19. Every guy watches porn at 23. If he doesn't then he is either blind, or doesn't have a penis.
