[ixboys]

My wife and I have been married for 6 years, about six months ago we split up. We argued all the time and she got into partying a lot. I did my wrong too, not cheating or anything like that not being the type of husband she needed me to be. The problem is I want us to try and work it out, but she's not sure what she wants to do. Ive given her six months to think about it, but still she has no answer for me. I don't know what to do just keep giving her time, or move on. Any advice would be great

[kp2171]

You can't make someone want to work it out.

I am a BIG proponent of TRYING to make a marriage work.

All you can do it try. If she is unwilling, you have no shame. You have tried. I think 6 mo is enough time to figure things out. I'm afraid its probably time to move on.

[kp2171]

Can you explain more?

Your age? Argued about what? etc...

[JoeCanada76]

Have either of you had any marriage counseling. It is important to go through these steps together. Or if you have to alone.

Who did the breaking up?

I know this might already been thought of but for the partying and going out a lot. Having such a long break without any answers. It is possible that she is with somebody else.

Counseling and if the other partner does not even make an attempt to work it out.

I would think about moving on. It is a shame but what else can you do.

Joe