[lolwatamidoing]

All right, so, I broke up with a boy that I dated for about 4 months and have known for a year and a half. I didn't really want to break up with him. I was torn between ending it and staying. I really did like him, and I felt like he really did like me. However, I ended it only because my best friend at the time confessed to me that he liked me, and I mixed up the feelings and thought I liked him too. When we started dating we did nothing but argue and fight. He dumped me very recently. I also decided to apologize to my ex from before, because we sort of lost touch. So, I apologized and now we are starting to talk almost every other day. I'm starting to get feelings for him again, and I'm not sure what to do.. I was the one who ended it, so why should I get him back? I am afraid he'd think I'm sort of a "player" because I have feelings for him so fast after being dumped.

I sort of think he may be interested in me too. We communicate my texting/IM. And sometimes he puts hearts after things he writes. We were also talking on the phone and when he left to go to sleep, he said "I love you" in a silly/playful manner and I replied the same. What does this mean? What should I do?

[Homegirl 50]

How old are you?
Your feelings change from situation to situation and you don't know who you want.
Stay single and you can flirt with all of them.
You are not ready to commit to either of them.