[sealkitagipson]

Hello OK I need OK I found out I was pregnant nov 11 I was 9 weeks in 3 days dey told me my due date was June 12th OK I had a sex partner August 20th in then I got back wit my boyfriend at the end of August we had sex September 16 17 in another day could you help me on who the father could be in when did I conceive the baby please..

[DoulaLC]

Was your dates in November determined with an ultrasound? With being around 9 weeks on Nov. 11, and with a due date of June 12, the father would be your boyfriend. If you conceived in August with the other man, you would be several weeks further along. Ultrasound is not exact, but in the early weeks it is pretty close. It would not be off by weeks.

[sealkitagipson]

Yes my ultrasounds has been on point sense I found out in dey said my lmp was septemebr 6 dates how dey told me my due date was June 12th but dey be saying I ovalated on September 20th in dey also give me a date as September 17 does that mean it happened between those days

[J_9]

What it means is that most likely the sperm met the egg on or around September 20. You could have had intercourse a few days earlier than that as it usually takes a few days for the sperm to travel up the vagina to the fallopian tubes where conception actually takes place.

[sealkitagipson]

So if I had sex on September the 14 16 in 17 wit my boyfriend how will I know which day I got pregnant

[sealkitagipson]

Why does the doctor tell me I ovalated on September 20th in they give me another date September 17 why do they give me two dates

[Fr_Chuck]

It is all estimates, the date you actually conceived if at best give or take one week, and often give or take two weeks.

There will never be an exact date, Sept 20 that is known for sure, unless that was the only date you had sex in a longer period.

So sorry it is all estimates and educated guesses, even by the doctors.

[DoulaLC]

Why does the doctor tell me I ovalated on september 20th in they give me another date september 17 why do they give me two dates

As Fr_Chuck said, they are estimates going with your last period and/or the results of the ultrasound. Either could be possible, since you had sex in the days before that time. It could have been the 18th or 19th just as well for example.

Since sperm can survive a few days, most often conception occurs in the days after the actual act of sex. Which exact day is not usually known unless someone has had medical assistance in becoming pregnant. They can only give you a general idea.

[drcapola]

Did you ever find out who the dad was?