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    Aug 14, 2012, 10:16 PM
    I dumped my boyfriend because he was 2 touchy
    So I let my boyfriend go 3 days ago and he called me the same day few times and then after that day he hasn't called me and I did realize I did a mistake by letting him go + my pride is too high to call him so what should I do!? You think he will try asking me again??
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    Aug 14, 2012, 10:32 PM
    It really depends on your age, and how serious you two were.

    Let me put it this way. If someone dumps you, and then ignores you, do you continue to call, or do you realize that they're over you and let it go?

    If you made a mistake he may realize that he did too, that he's better off single.

    No one knows what he'll do but him.
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    Aug 14, 2012, 10:54 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    It really depends on your age, and how serious you two were.

    Let me put it this way. If someone dumps you, and then ignores you, do you continue to call, or do you realize that they're over you and let it go?

    If you made a mistake he may realize that he did too, that he's better off single.

    No one knows what he'll do but him.
    So . I told him I Love you but I have to let you go because that's not me I can't take it to another level both of us are over 21. And he was very serious with me . He give up after one day?! If he loved me than why he's letting me go this easy??
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    Aug 14, 2012, 11:19 PM
    Its normal to get touchy if you're a teen ager! That's human behavear.touch him back! U. Might like it!
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    Aug 14, 2012, 11:21 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by mustang65289 View Post
    Its normal to get touchy if your a teen ager! Thats human behavear.touch him back! U. Might like it!
    I'm
    Not teenager all
    My life every guy until now has even spoiling me like there's no tomorrow and no one ever touched me . And I met him 2 months ago he's taking it 2 fast.!
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    Aug 15, 2012, 07:54 AM
    He probably figures "what's the point" and he's mature enough to know that he's not going to lose his dignity over a 2 month relationship.
    He probably was not as hooked on you as you thought.
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    Aug 15, 2012, 08:14 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    He probably figures "what's the point" and he's mature enough to know that he's not going to lose his dignity over a 2 month relationship.
    He probably was not as hooked on you as you thought.
    Actually he was... He was convincing me to go meet his parents . I just want to understand y he's lagging it?? He's been posting IG pictures every day . B4 r break up he was never on IG now he's posting pictures and adding new girls to his IG . If he don't care than y he's doing all that?? To make me mad?? Or to make me call him?
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    Aug 15, 2012, 08:39 AM
    Maybe he is doing it because it is what he wants to do, he is moving on.
    If you broke up with him because he was too touchy, why are you tripping? Sounds to me like your pride my be bruised a bit.
    Do not write in text, it is against the rules here and not everyone wants to have to decipher what you are saying.
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    Aug 15, 2012, 12:05 PM
    And he was very serious with me . He give up after one day?! If he loved me than y he's letting me go this easy??
    Maybe for the same reason you let him go so easily. You dumped him. Then, when you decide you want him back he's supposed to jump in the air screaming "yay", just because you changed your mind?

    Maybe he doesn't want to be with someone that loves him one minute, dumps him the next minute, and then wants him back minutes after that. Some men want security and maturity in a relationship, they don't want someone who changes their mind about the relationship every few seconds.
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    Aug 15, 2012, 03:25 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Maybe for the same reason you let him go so easily. You dumped him. Then, when you decide you want him back he's supposed to jump in the air screaming "yay", just because you changed your mind?

    Maybe he doesn't want to be with someone that loves him one minute, dumps him the next minute, and then wants him back minutes after that. Some men want security and maturity in a relationship, they don't want someone who changes their mind about the relationship every few seconds.
    Ur right . I will just go with d flow and see where this will take me . If he calls that's good if he doesn't then it didn't meant to be . Thanks for your help

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