Most women, including myself, need direct clitoris stimulation, which you don't usually get from just straight sex. When you masturbate you provide yourself with direct stimulation, therefore you climax.
Show your partner where to touch you during intercourse so you can help him to help you to orgasm. Men WANT and LOVE to know they are pleasing their woman.
Plus your comfort level with your partner is also important. It is almost impossible for most of us girls to climax if we aren't comfortable!
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