[Fitzgerald142]

Hi I'm in my 2nd year of college and since last week in the completely same situation as you except we were log distance for a year then I followed him to school for a year an then when I finally got him to move back home with me he dumps me saying we are just not meant for each other but he doesn't know for sure. He doesn't know if he can do any better than me but he wants to try. That when we are old and grey my personality just wouldn't be enough. But then confuses me by sayig all tese things about how he knows and hopes he's wrong and if he is he will get me back and that hereally doesn't think this is our last goodbye I just feel horrible. Every where I go everything reminds me of him and the anxiety and constant reminder that he thinks he can be happier without me. It's so heart wrenching. To feel like he doesn't care or miss me at all. We haven't spoken in a week and I'm already going mad all I want to do is beg to start over. But we have to get through this and like every one keeps telling me, if it's meant to be, he will be back.

How did you get through it?

[monsieurjj]

Just focus on your healing, what you feel right now is normal upon breakup and you glorify the relationship give it time so you can see things objectively, I am on the healing process myself it is hard and not everybody is the same just love yourself above all