[snowymarsh49171]

Me and my boyfriend have sex every night of the week, every day of the month, we have been together for 8 months now and the sex is still great, but when we first got together we would have sex 4 times a day (ouch!) but now we only have it once a day, and I think most girls know that the second time round is always the best! So I try and get him to have it twice a night but after the first time he says he's to tired!

I know sex for a male is like a strong sleeping pill! But at the same time I want to get as much pleasure out of him as possible!

I try and make the fore play last longer the first time round so I can do this ^^ but at the same time the longer the fore play, the shorter the atcual sex.

I would try making him wait a couple of days so he would be gagging for it but if I go one night without it the next day I'm at work sexually frustrated!

Apart from this our relationship is great! So breaking up with him isn't an option and neither of us would be open to me sleeping with someone else.


so basically I'm asking if anyone has any advice as to how I could get him to do it the second time round??

[Wondergirl]

How old are you? I'll move this to a different board if you are under 18.

Girl, you are either going to kill that guy or drive him away with your demands! Haven't you heard about "too much of a good thing"?

[laurenh1990]

You're actually complaining about this? I have a high sex drive, and after nearly three years of being together, I make do with once a week! (Not for lack of trying!) Seriously though, after eight months, things tend to slow down in that area for most people. Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with either of you, just means the novelty is wearing off a bit for him now you're coming out of the 'honeymoon' phase. My advise is to make the most of it while you can, and make that once a night session memorable!

[anillaK7]

I don't think anyone is going to be able to give you very good advice on this one. Unfortunately, most of us have jobs, kids, friends, school, depression, drug addiction... something that gets in the way of us having sex daily, much less more than once a day. That being said, the pad repsonse to the "not having enough sex" question is "have you talked to your partner about it"? Perhaps he doesn't know you were happier when it was 4 times a day, and if you tell him that, he will initiate sex more frequently.