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Lanalindsey · Aug 3, 2012, 10:21 PM

So I started dating this guy. And he was sweet. Always wanting to be with me. We became literally befriends. But I couldn't pay rent and moved in with my sister. His family left him and me and him moved into my other sisters house after I got an abortion. He didn't want me to but we are young. I don't want to mess up his life. So he got mad at me for telling him to stop drinking so much soda cause it's my sisters she asked me to ask him to chill out on it. He got mad then promised her kid he'd play with him. Then 10 min later said no. so my nephew comes to me crying so I said sorry he lied. He got mad left and went to his parents at a motel. He's of f with a bunch of younger girls at the beach but he won't allow me to even have any friends girl or boy. So he said I could hang out with friends so my friend whose been a big bro since 5.years ago came over to buy me a pregnancy test. And he got mad and fought with me. He said he cheated then said he only said that to hurt me. Then he's gets mad I'm talking to a great old friend and leaves. I want to be with him sooooooo badly. I don't know what to do anymore.

allenalb · Aug 3, 2012, 11:00 PM

Your boyfriend is a controlling @$$#0LE. But you won't see it. Nobody ever sees it. I have been in the same situation, and nobody could talk me out of it. One day you will just get fed up and leave though. Then you will barely even remember him later

Lanalindsey · Aug 3, 2012, 11:06 PM

Originally Posted by allenalb

your boyfriend is a controlling @$$#0LE. but you won't see it. nobody ever sees it. i have been in the same situation, and nobody could talk me out of it. one day you will just get fed up and leave though. then you will barely even remember him later

I might be pregnant with his kid. And I know my last relationship was worse. But I can't let him go. I have tried sooo many times. Disconnected my phone. Deleted fb. Fell off the face of the earth. But all that thought nothing else but about him. Idk what will get me threw it. What will help me leave him. I know I myself cant.

f010244 · Aug 3, 2012, 11:47 PM

Girl, I only have one thing to tell you... DROP HIM- THE SOONE THE BETTER!!

What is so exciting about being with a possessive guy??

Funny how you said that you got an abortion because you did not want to mess up his life.

His life?? Think about this poor baby!!
You COULD have given it up for adoption to people that can't have children.

STOP trying to please him, what does he do to please you??

Is it the sex part? If so, toys will do the trick and you will save yourself some drama.

PLEASE leave him because it would be really said to see you continue life with him and if you ever have kids with him, to have those kids live a life with deadbeat dad.